OK, so you know the obvious ones (dear God I hope) – her breasts, vagina, clitoris, and anus, but there are some northern regions you’ll want to tend to first.
The best for breasts
Are you a boob guy? Oh right, who isn’t? Well, there’s a sweet melange of methods you can use to arouse this sensitive (and enticing) area of her body. They come in an endless array of sizes and shapes, and just as they are varied in form, they’re also varied in stimulation.
Some women like them to be caressed, squeezed (gently), tweaked, held, kissed, and sucked. However, being too aggressive (and at the wrong time of the month) can cause her a lot of pain, so be sure that you proceed with some caution.
A detailed description of the different types of breasts and nipples, and how to handle each case (believe me! There’s a whole different way for each type) can be found in my book “Turn Her On Faster”. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Surprising female “hotspots”
The great thing about women is that they aren’t cookie-cutter sexual beings – different women have different areas that enjoy titillation. While most females will concur that the aforementioned erogenous zones are universally appealing, women love to compare notes on what makes them tick versus their friends. “I love when a guy puts his hands in my hair and massages my scalp,” one friend told me. Another said, “When he kisses or sucks the inside of my wrists, I turn into putty.” The list of possibilities is endless.
There are a number of unlikely “zones” that you’ll want to throw into your foreplay regimen for good measure. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Body mapping
While discovering every facet of her figure is a lot of fun, the practice of truly learning about her entire body is very important. There’s a term that the infamous Dr. Ruth coined and it’s “body mapping.”
There are a few rules to body mapping, and number one is, avoid the genitals. You already know just how sensitive they can be, and genital touching will cause you to rush because the desire to have an orgasm could become too strong to resist. But other than the genitals, leave no area untouched, no zone unexplored. You might have been skipping that lone spot even your partner didn’t already know about.
And don’t limit yourself to just touching. Licks and kisses can create different sensations. The idea is to spend your time exploring.
Learn more about great strategies to do “body mapping” in a way that will leave her steamy and ready for the next step. Check it out at http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Using your fingers
With all the toys out there, who knew your own little fingers could be such a powerful sex tool? Give yourself some credit – women don’t only like little buzzing dolphins down there. They like it when you’re down there too (as long as you’re doing the job), and they like it even more if you can turn her on.
You just need to go in (no pun intended) with confidence, creativity, and most of all, clean hands (quick side note: if you want your wife to be receptive to you fiddling around down there with your fingers, please make sure you have clean hands and fingernails, with no rough hangnails, calluses, and even rings).
Want to add to your repertoire of finger techniques? When you’ve been with someone for an extended amount of time, you can grow “accustomed” to your partner’s touch. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t find a bevy of places to explore as well as exciting new ways to use those fingers.
I included a full list of finger techniques in my book Turn Her On Faster. Make sure to check it out. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
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Showing posts with label Turning on her mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Turning on her mind. Show all posts
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Turning on her mind By Gabrielle Moore
Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Her On Faster. Learn more at: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.
While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.
Eye contact
Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.
The lost art of kissing
What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).
A few tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:
1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.
2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.
3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.
For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, go to http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Intimate talk
After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.
In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!
Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “don’ts” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Dirty talk
The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk Рdirty talk is, well, more risqu̩.
A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).
This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faseter” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.
While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.
Eye contact
Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.
The lost art of kissing
What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).
A few tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:
1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.
2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.
3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.
For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, go to http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Intimate talk
After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.
In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!
Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “don’ts” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Dirty talk
The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk Рdirty talk is, well, more risqu̩.
A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).
This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faseter” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
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