There’s a joke that says a bastard is a guy who makes love to you with a three-inch penis and then kisses you goodbye with a six-inch tongue (Secrets of a Supersexpert). Haha – get it?
There’s no denying that couples of all ages love to engage in oral sex practices. In fact, married couples are likely to have more sex, and more varied sex, than single people... and, according to stats, even oral sex is more common in married couples rather than single couples.
So here’s some advice to help you hone your oral dexterity.
Oral prepwork
One of the biggest turn-offs when performing oral sex on someone is not being clean, trimmed and proper. Let me explain...
The clean side: Wash. Everywhere. For longer than three seconds. There are a lot of tiny hidden crevices in and around a man’s genital area, and after a long day tucked into underwear and pants, naturally you’re going to sweat (and start to possibly smell – I’m not going to sugar-coat it). Proper regular hygiene creates a much more inviting environment for her face (and all of her senses). Even a quick washcloth wipe-down will be an improvement.
The trimmed side: Maybe you just missed the manscaping train, but it’s time to hop on because, well, hair is icky. Not all hair... just long, thick hair. It’s a trap for bacteria, it’s not the most attractive accessory, and it’s another deterrent when it comes to creating an appealing atmosphere.
Detailed information on the important steps that you must take to insure cleanliness and safety before permorming oral sex is included in my book Turn Her On Faster. Read more at: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Best oral positions
Just as there are a countless number of techniques to satisfy your mate there are just as many varying positions you can use when engaging in oral sex, each with its own perks.
Need a few? OK, here goes:
1- She stands and you kneel in front of her. This is perfect for urgent sex plus it appeals to alpha females who like seeing you shamelessly submissive in front of him (Secrets of a Supersexpert ). And besides, if you want to see her in that position next, then you’d better get on your knees (put a pillow underneath your knees so she can see you’re not in any rush).
2- If you want to impress, lie on your back on the bed with your head hanging over the edge and get her to straddle your mouth (Secrets of a Supersexpert ). You may not be able to stay in this position for long, but she’ll definitely appreciate the effort.
These are just a couple; let me be honest though: I saved the best for my book. I included eight more positions in Turn Her On Faster so make sure to check them out. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Techniques that will drive her wild
All of the positions mentioned above can be effective but only if you use the right techniques. That means – you use all those tools, from your fingers and hands to your mouth and tongue, to manoeuvre your way around and get her off.
While a repetitive motion can be the perfect way to finish things off and help your wife to climax, a slow melange of kissing, licking, sucking, and even gentle blowing is the best technique to get her to the sheet-clenching stage. Mix long broad strokes with more delicate ones. Breathe lightly on her clitoris (never into her vagina) between licks.
Outlined in my chapter on oral play are three ingredients for fantastic oral sex – prepping the area, assuming the position and perfecting your techniques. To learn more, make sure to go http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
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Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Her erogenous zones By Gabrielle Moore
OK, so you know the obvious ones (dear God I hope) – her breasts, vagina, clitoris, and anus, but there are some northern regions you’ll want to tend to first.
The best for breasts
Are you a boob guy? Oh right, who isn’t? Well, there’s a sweet melange of methods you can use to arouse this sensitive (and enticing) area of her body. They come in an endless array of sizes and shapes, and just as they are varied in form, they’re also varied in stimulation.
Some women like them to be caressed, squeezed (gently), tweaked, held, kissed, and sucked. However, being too aggressive (and at the wrong time of the month) can cause her a lot of pain, so be sure that you proceed with some caution.
A detailed description of the different types of breasts and nipples, and how to handle each case (believe me! There’s a whole different way for each type) can be found in my book “Turn Her On Faster”. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Surprising female “hotspots”
The great thing about women is that they aren’t cookie-cutter sexual beings – different women have different areas that enjoy titillation. While most females will concur that the aforementioned erogenous zones are universally appealing, women love to compare notes on what makes them tick versus their friends. “I love when a guy puts his hands in my hair and massages my scalp,” one friend told me. Another said, “When he kisses or sucks the inside of my wrists, I turn into putty.” The list of possibilities is endless.
There are a number of unlikely “zones” that you’ll want to throw into your foreplay regimen for good measure. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Body mapping
While discovering every facet of her figure is a lot of fun, the practice of truly learning about her entire body is very important. There’s a term that the infamous Dr. Ruth coined and it’s “body mapping.”
There are a few rules to body mapping, and number one is, avoid the genitals. You already know just how sensitive they can be, and genital touching will cause you to rush because the desire to have an orgasm could become too strong to resist. But other than the genitals, leave no area untouched, no zone unexplored. You might have been skipping that lone spot even your partner didn’t already know about.
And don’t limit yourself to just touching. Licks and kisses can create different sensations. The idea is to spend your time exploring.
Learn more about great strategies to do “body mapping” in a way that will leave her steamy and ready for the next step. Check it out at http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Using your fingers
With all the toys out there, who knew your own little fingers could be such a powerful sex tool? Give yourself some credit – women don’t only like little buzzing dolphins down there. They like it when you’re down there too (as long as you’re doing the job), and they like it even more if you can turn her on.
You just need to go in (no pun intended) with confidence, creativity, and most of all, clean hands (quick side note: if you want your wife to be receptive to you fiddling around down there with your fingers, please make sure you have clean hands and fingernails, with no rough hangnails, calluses, and even rings).
Want to add to your repertoire of finger techniques? When you’ve been with someone for an extended amount of time, you can grow “accustomed” to your partner’s touch. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t find a bevy of places to explore as well as exciting new ways to use those fingers.
I included a full list of finger techniques in my book Turn Her On Faster. Make sure to check it out. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Red Hot Kisses
Gabrielle Moore
The best for breasts
Are you a boob guy? Oh right, who isn’t? Well, there’s a sweet melange of methods you can use to arouse this sensitive (and enticing) area of her body. They come in an endless array of sizes and shapes, and just as they are varied in form, they’re also varied in stimulation.
Some women like them to be caressed, squeezed (gently), tweaked, held, kissed, and sucked. However, being too aggressive (and at the wrong time of the month) can cause her a lot of pain, so be sure that you proceed with some caution.
A detailed description of the different types of breasts and nipples, and how to handle each case (believe me! There’s a whole different way for each type) can be found in my book “Turn Her On Faster”. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Surprising female “hotspots”
The great thing about women is that they aren’t cookie-cutter sexual beings – different women have different areas that enjoy titillation. While most females will concur that the aforementioned erogenous zones are universally appealing, women love to compare notes on what makes them tick versus their friends. “I love when a guy puts his hands in my hair and massages my scalp,” one friend told me. Another said, “When he kisses or sucks the inside of my wrists, I turn into putty.” The list of possibilities is endless.
There are a number of unlikely “zones” that you’ll want to throw into your foreplay regimen for good measure. To learn more, go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Body mapping
While discovering every facet of her figure is a lot of fun, the practice of truly learning about her entire body is very important. There’s a term that the infamous Dr. Ruth coined and it’s “body mapping.”
There are a few rules to body mapping, and number one is, avoid the genitals. You already know just how sensitive they can be, and genital touching will cause you to rush because the desire to have an orgasm could become too strong to resist. But other than the genitals, leave no area untouched, no zone unexplored. You might have been skipping that lone spot even your partner didn’t already know about.
And don’t limit yourself to just touching. Licks and kisses can create different sensations. The idea is to spend your time exploring.
Learn more about great strategies to do “body mapping” in a way that will leave her steamy and ready for the next step. Check it out at http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Using your fingers
With all the toys out there, who knew your own little fingers could be such a powerful sex tool? Give yourself some credit – women don’t only like little buzzing dolphins down there. They like it when you’re down there too (as long as you’re doing the job), and they like it even more if you can turn her on.
You just need to go in (no pun intended) with confidence, creativity, and most of all, clean hands (quick side note: if you want your wife to be receptive to you fiddling around down there with your fingers, please make sure you have clean hands and fingernails, with no rough hangnails, calluses, and even rings).
Want to add to your repertoire of finger techniques? When you’ve been with someone for an extended amount of time, you can grow “accustomed” to your partner’s touch. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t find a bevy of places to explore as well as exciting new ways to use those fingers.
I included a full list of finger techniques in my book Turn Her On Faster. Make sure to check it out. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Red Hot Kisses
Gabrielle Moore
Turning on her mind By Gabrielle Moore
Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Her On Faster. Learn more at: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.
While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.
Eye contact
Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.
The lost art of kissing
What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).
A few tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:
1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.
2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.
3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.
For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, go to http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Intimate talk
After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.
In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!
Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “don’ts” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Dirty talk
The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk Рdirty talk is, well, more risqu̩.
A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).
This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faseter” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.
While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.
Eye contact
Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.
The lost art of kissing
What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).
A few tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:
1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.
2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.
3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.
For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, go to http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Intimate talk
After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.
In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!
Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “don’ts” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed. Go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
Dirty talk
The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk Рdirty talk is, well, more risqu̩.
A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).
This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faseter” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster go to: http://www.gabriellemoore.com/tof/nujahu-turn
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